You Just Need The Perspective…

You Just Need The Perspective...

What would be a more better way to give a kick start to this article than by not mentioning my own very recent experience.I just had a perfect day .Yes truly indeed!!!.My day started with the missing of a function at my alma mater which I was very eager to attend.I was all by myself at home but with my grandmother.I tried on to catch up onto my friends but again this didn’t work out owing to their prior commitments.This accepted .

So then me and my granny decided to go out for a lunch at a nearby restaurant.But just  as we stepped outside of our house it started raining heavily.All these events taken into account prove to be paradoxical to what could have made my day a perfect one .But it is then very much true too that had these happenings not taken place my day would have not been what it turned out to be.Had I visited my school it would have been a wonderful experience but then  looking at the other side of it I wouldn’t have got time to spend with my granny.Had my friends turned up at my place we coudn’t have made plans for a lunch out.Also if it had not rained I wount have not got the chance to have steaming hot pakoras with my granny while watching the beautiful spectrum of the rain and getting drenched in it.Sometimes you just don’t need to regret at all.I don’t dismiss the fact that the my presence at my school function or having my friends at my place or for that matter even lunch with my granny would have been just the perfect things to happen but then the moments I shared with my granny ,my being at home,watching the beautiful rainbow and having a gala time with her all that for sure takes over all the other things that could simply have been a treat for me.Sometimes you really don’t need to work hard for all this.Let it just all roll by and see the results unfold.Sometimes you do need to keep it simple . At times its just not about how you want to work something out,it is very important to just let things work out for themselves too.Maybe things won’t fall into their proper places then but  it is in this very ambiguity that the real flavour of life lies.It so very often happens that the best things in life are right in front of you ,you only need to make time to look for them.Time does scream by very fast and in today’s scenario life just has become too mechanised and we all have been so much absorbed into such a routines of ours that we need some space of our own too and remember for that to happen you need the right perspective.Conditions may or may not be according to your own whims and fancies but how you cater to make the most of them solely and entirely depends upon your outlook.So from now on just jump on to that roller coaster ride of yours and live each moment to its best.Laugh and have fun and then see for how you get trapped in the magic of life.Once you let go of what you thought is just ideal or perfect,space is created for something even better to arrive.Hoping that you will definitely enjoy the ride.So stop trying too hard and live in the moment.Also be fearless to ask yourself this question-Do I brood over things or just move on for the better?

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  • I absolutely agree with what you mentioned Arshdeep! We all are so busy planning life that we almost forget to live. We all must change our perspective, our way of our life and should just appreciate life as it happens. That will add much joy and satisfaction to our lives. We should all savour every moment of life whether it happens as we planned or not. After all life is all about making the best of the present moment.
    Lovely article. 😀

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  • nice one..Good job!

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  • Arshdeep Kaur
    April 21, 2015 5:50 am

    Thank you both kriti and chitranshi.I totally second you kriti that we should all savour every moment of our life.After all we need to make a big leap from just surviving to actually living our lives.

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  • Akul Dev Saha
    April 21, 2015 6:58 am

    After reading your article, it seems you are very optimistic about life. Fantastic piece of article – simple, precise and very effective. I liked it.

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  • Arshdeep Kaur
    April 21, 2015 7:13 am

    Thank you Akul Dev Saha!

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  • Alisha Kaur
    May 5, 2015 9:00 pm

    Lovely article.we should live the moment and enjoy it to the fullest

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  • Padmaa Murugesan
    May 8, 2015 3:22 pm

    Interesting to read.. nice work…!

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  • Arshdeep Kaur
    May 10, 2015 4:22 am

    Thank you Padmaa Murugesan

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  • Akshita Bansal
    May 10, 2015 8:51 am

    Beautifully written…good job!

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  • Arshdeep Kaur
    May 12, 2015 3:27 pm

    Thank you Akshita Bansal:)

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  • Stephy Paul
    June 8, 2015 10:50 pm

    We should learn to love our life and live it as it goes.
    Well written!

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  • SHANTANU BHARADWAJ
    June 8, 2015 11:06 pm

    Good one..

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  • Ojasvi Goswami
    July 3, 2015 3:10 pm

    We need some personal space.it matters what we think and what we want. Worth reading it 🙂

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  • Himanshi Jatia
    July 9, 2015 7:04 am

    nice one… interesting article!!

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  • Vineet Agarwal
    August 21, 2015 6:26 pm

    Very well written and presented, good going keep it up

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  • Srishti Kumar
    August 26, 2015 11:10 pm

    Very true. Man proposes and god disposes so lets live the moment. Change our view and perspective. Awesome article 🙂

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  • Anirudh Krishnadas
    August 30, 2015 12:23 pm

    Fully agreed to the topic 😀
    And yes very well explained with the help of a live example 😀
    Good work 😀
    Imspiring article 😀

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