Just saw a fight.Yes parking issues indeed!I so much call it a fight because these days our very lives are governed by this phenomena.
Why can’t we just understand each other and live in harmony.The person who had parked his car outside my neighbour’s gate had come only to meet his ailing mother- in- law.My neighbour having no courtesy started shouting and gathered a lot of people who were mere spectators to all that was happening!This can be agreed that it was his parking area and the visitor could have parked the car somewhere else too!But why can’t we resolve issues at peace.Why can’t we show that little humanity that exists in us today.In other words why have we become so inhumane?
Right from the time our day starts till the time we are in bed,we are in constant stress.
We today have totally lost our innocence.An infant because of being totally unbiased or clever or for that matter having other such traits is loved by everyone.Why cant we be like that ?Why are we so enmeshed in such a cobweb which only exudes negativity?
Its very seldom in the current time to find people who don’t harbour grudges against each other.We today have become so intolerable.Now it has become the order of the day to make any trivial issue a much talked about thing.
Forgiveness is also another such thing which has ceased to exist .It should be understood that forgiveness along with giving relief to the person who has wronged us,to a greater extent relieves us too.Infact the grave issue or the problem is that we today find it very difficult to forgive.
So learn to forgive as well as to seek forgiveness as all this would certainly help you be at peace and to be calm as well.Also give as much you can to others as giving does begin the receiving process:)
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Absolutely agree with u..Truly said..Nice!
Thank You Juhi for your feedback.
Very well written…I totally agree with this..we don’t need to fight for issues which can be resolved so easily..forgiveness is something we need to learn
Absolutely Mishika! Forgiveness is one of the many such traits we have given a backseat to…
Yes! I agree with it.. and rightly said by mother Teresa – “Peace begins with a smile”
Thank you Megha for your feedback 🙂
The other reason for getting into fights is,losing your temper very easily.It’s very important to control your emotions.The severe cases that we read about today,are the results of anxiety,anger,helplessness all mixed together!
Just wanted to add my opinion! 😀
I totally second you Shubral on this.The need of the hour is to learn to channelise our emotions in the right direction so as to avoid any such situation.
very nice.
Thanks Shantanu!
very truly said.. totally agree with you . nice article
Thank you Prachi!
Well articulated.
Thanks a lot Divya 🙂
Totally agree arshdeep !
Nicely written..keep this good work on ! 🙂
Thanks Shikha 🙂
Indeed.. People consistently follow the concept of ‘I’, ‘me’ and ‘my’. Everything they do involves only them. The day people start giving value and try understanding others problems and situations.. Such scenarios can be avoided!
I am completely with Vinita on this and I totally value your opinion!
nice
Thanks.
So true! Well written.
Thanks a ton Ria.
good
Thanks Shantanu!
True that 😀 .. Nice article
Thanks Anirudh!
I fully agree with arshdeep and vinita. Well done both of u!!!
Thank you so very much!
Nice article
Thanks Suryakant.
This is an awesome piece of work! Completely agree with you!
Thanks Stephy for your appreciation:)
so damn true!
Yes Vasundhra it is !
I would say that deal with situations as calmly as possible, since the negative energy flows mutual ways…If we avoid the negative energy, we will stay at peace a lot many times…
So true Nuruddin Bahar 🙂
True fact..! I agree this…!
I like, follow, share PEACE.
Nice Article
Something to think about!!!
Thanks a lot Abhinandan Ghosal!
Such an amazing article.. We really need to learn how to forgive !!
Thanks a ton Saumya! We really do need to learn as to how to forgive.
Truly agreed…awesome one:);)
Thanks Manpreet.
I agree with you Arshdeep, but I have a different viewpoint. See, humans are animals but far better developed in evolution hierarchy. Still, we have certain animal instincts in us. Fighting too is an animal instinct. We do it to protect ourselves. Since most of it is verbal fight in case of humans, we try to protect our self respect, esteem, ego in such fights. Peace too is our animal instinct, but a latent one. It arises out of love. But, until we find a reason to love someone, how can we have peace? That is why peace is difficult to maintain while fights are easier to start.
I totally respect your opinion Akul Dev Saha!Also agreed that you don’t need a second to start a fight but it may take you years to be at peace.We humans do definitely have certain animal instincts within us but these can never be outweighed if we keep waiting for all the lights to turn green before we leave home.In other words we really do need to take measures by stepping forward so to inculcate this very trait in us which certainly is the need of the hour!
superb !
agree wid it 🙂
whatever you have said that’s very true!And we should try to resolve matters peacefully instead of shouting and creating a scene for others to watch
So true Aman!
Communication is the solution
Precisely Aishwarya 🙂
Very well written 🙂
Absolutely agreed…spoke my mind
Very well written bro
really well written!
Forgive,forget.Bear with the fault of others as you would have them bear with yours.
Very well written 🙂
Pretty intriguing. Great work!