The Secret for Success

There are times when you might experience fear, self-doubt, and uncertainty, you may hear yourself saying “What are you doing?” or “Why aren’t you there already?”.  You may not always feel inspired or motivated, but what is important is to push through the blockages, resistance, and pervasiveness and move forward. These thoughts and feelings are completely natural and are a part of the human nature. Following are some secrets that might help you to move a step forward in your success graph

Experience the fear but learn to love it

Fear is considered synonymous with panic, terror, horror, fright etc but here all these are not associated with dangerous situations. It is the fear of failure, fear of others judging us, fear of laughter, fear of output etc. Now what is the one thing common in all these types of fears i.e., these fears originate from within and it is the fear of something that has not even happened yet! Most of us live our lives by a fear of something that is actually a “superficial risk” and not the actual reality.

Overcome your fear and start loving your fear, try to create a productive relationship with your fears. You must perceive your fears as a signal that you are on the right track because when you are scared to do something, it means that this is the correct step to move towards the next level.

Give a deep thought about you “Self-Image”

Just observe what you feel and what does your brain say, do not start judging yourself and creating opinions, because when you do that, it actually gives more fuel to your greedy little ego. Approach everything with a neutral mindset and watch your ego start to calm down. Consider your ego as separate from who you truly are at your most real state.

Possess and enjoy your journey

Remember nothing in life is free – You earn your successes through heart, courage, tears, and the unwillingness to compromise. You are where you are because that’s where you belong. There’s always a reason why you’re experiencing some a challenge or hardship. There are many situations that you face in life such as being in a undesired relationship, being unhappy in your job, being too afraid to start a business, etc, it is not because everyone hates you or it is destined, it there because there is a part of you that needs healing, growth, or evolution so you can become the person you need to be, so that you have all the things you want in your life

Remove the negative elements from your life

There are some toxic elements that might come in your life and instill negative energy which may to bring you down. Most of the people you meet are either complaining or shooting down your dreams. You may either tolerate these toxic elements in your life and their drama so that you don’t feel alone or become a bit isolated to have peace, inspiration, energy, and motivation and not deal with the drama.

Let go

You must not shy down and ask others for help. Let go of your pride and ego, stop thinking that you don’t need anyone and that you can do all by yourself. There is no harm in surrendering your problems to the universe. We all deserve support, insight, and guidance and if you want to get on the success path, it is important to develop your spirituality and your relationship with the people around you.

Remember you deserve the best and nothing less

You must treat yourself and expect other to treat you with respect, admiration, appreciation, and love. In response you must also act out of integrity and treat others with the same reciprocity. You deserve the best also means to stop settling in your career or relationship if you do not feel satisfied. But if you’re not sure whether you are happy or not, then just stop listening to the voices in your head and tune into your heart instead

Be fully committed

Don’t see commitment as a prison cell or as a trap or as a boundation that will take away your freedom. Commitment simply means doing whatever it takes to achieve you goals with passion and dedication. Ironically commitment is actually gaining the freedom. Remember if you commit yourself only 99% to your cause but still leave the back door open, you’re not going to achieve what it is that you have set out to do. So commit 100%!