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First Impressions – 10 ways of making first impressions the lasting impressions

#Know-How Nailing that First Impression

First date, first job interview, first public appearance, first big social gathering, first meeting with your would-be in-laws or basically a first meeting with absolutely anybody would leave us in jitters in all kinds. Deciding your wardrobe seems like the hardest question ever, and you always wonder what could be the plausible topic of conversation you could pick up.
The problem doesn’t end with the end of the meeting; instead, it starts with the meeting. After you bid farewell, you begin to wonder what impression you managed to leave on the other person, if they liked you well or not, if they would form a positive opinion about you and such things.

As the popular saying goes, “First Impression is the Last Impression”, it is, indeed, the first impression that counts the most.
While there’s no legit proof that first impression accounts for everything, there is, however, some truth behind the fact that people form an image of you by the kind of first impression you leave on them. It’s fairly simple actually- you meet them for the first time, they meet you for the first time, they will believe what you show them and eventually that picture would settle in their mind.
How, then, can you paint a rosy picture, or in other words, create a fine first impression?

Be on time

The first and foremost effort that anybody needs to make to create a good impression, in general, is to be punctual and on time. We’ve gotten into a very bad habit of being “fashionably late” to every gathering, that too very conveniently. However, as fashionable as this may seem, this does not account for good etiquette at all.
A person who cannot be punctual and on time cannot be relied upon by anyone- this is precisely the kind of impression being late casts upon people.

So the first step is to always be on time. Just in case you are unable to show up on time, etiquettes demand that you inform that person about your delay, well in advance.

Be confident

Yes, I know preaching about confidence during first meetings is easier said than done. But this is an important requirement.

Projecting yourself as a confident person makes you appear to be a very self-assured person. Walking and talking confidently, confident gestures, confident body language makes the other person automatically more comfortable in talking to you.

Focus on others

When you talk to someone, be it for the first or for the fifteenth time, it is very importance to give them due attention and due importance. Talking about your-self all the time does not create a suitable impression. It makes you sound narcissistic and arrogant. Let’s not forget the pride that will come along!
Keep in mind that it is equally important to patiently listen to the view of other people and as a well-mannered person, you are supposed to wait for the other person to express their argument before you counter-argue.

Two key elements: Politeness and Smile

A polite behaviour leaves a very lasting, very fine impression on everyone you talk to. If you were feeling nervous about your job interview, would it not leave you relaxed if your interviewer was a cheerful, pleasant person with a smile on his face? It would automatically release your anxiety and would reduce the impending tension in the air.
When you talk with a smile on your place, it automatically makes your argument appear less negative (even if, in actuality, it is negative in content) and makes you seem open to different perspectives.

Moreover, it makes the other person feel more comfortable in your company. It is important to remember that if you are meeting a person for the first time, that person, too, is meeting you for the first time. You should also try to make the other person feel comfortable and calm.

Dress appropriately

To leave a good, long lasting impression on somebody, it is important to dress according to the occasion. Being over-dressed or under dressed is not generally acceptable. Too flashy attire is also a big no, too.

It has also been a well-established fact that when looking to impress people, it is important to foremost be comfortable with yourself, therefore, it is important to dress in what you would feel comfortable in.

Avoid too much perfume or cologne

This is an important point to remember, but this is also something we are most likely to forget.
Application of too much perfume or too much cologne makes you seem pretentious and self-insecure.

Avoid bragging about yourself

Modesty is a good skill to possess. Just as important it is to not brag about yourself, it is also appreciable to not defame anybody in the process of creating your fine impression.

Gather all relevant information before hand:

When you are going to an event of professionals, for a job interview or to a gathering where you seek to converse with and impress some specific personality, it is always a good idea to conduct due research on the relevant topic on which you could hold a prim and proper conversation, without getting your facts wrong!

Don’t stop complimenting

This is probably the oldest trick in the book. Never, and I mean never cease complimenting people, it will always make them happy, and will put you in their good books, definitely! However, it is important to maintain the very faint distinction that always exists between complimenting someone and buttering someone!

There are never a limited number of do’s and don’ts’s on how to create a first impression. Your list probably won’t even be halfway through, whereas this one has come to an end. It is always a good time to learn, especially from all the other people who converse with you. Observe their behaviour, and know what to adapt and what to avoid!

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19 Comments. Leave new

  • I liked the points you described, and i would definitely agree to these 🙂
    Specially confidence, your body language, and how you behave matter a lot, in framing the first opinion! 😀
    Well done 🙂

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  • nice

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  • Ankita Rijhsinghani
    September 24, 2015 8:41 pm

    A really nice article
    It is so true that one has to take care of very little but equally important things before going to a gathering/ interviews /social meetings etc.
    Things little things if not taken care of might make us loose points of important opportunities that we might get in life
    A must read for everyone
    Kuddoos!

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  • Shubhangi Bhatia
    September 24, 2015 11:27 pm

    Amazing work.Truly first meetings are not easy. I hope your tips will be helpful to all of us. Keep it up 🙂

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  • Our first impression matters a lot, especially in a formal set up like an interview or so, wherein it is our impression which helps us get through the interview. The tips provided by you seem very appropriate. Good article.

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  • I read this article wherein it was written that the interviewers form your impression in the first 5 minutes and it all depends on how confident you are in those minutes like you also stated being confident is very important. you rightly said a big turnoff is when people brag about themselves. Well detailed and presented article 🙂

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  • Wow!!!;.This post was an eye -opener.
    Another thing that I feel is also important is that to ‘be yourself’.Never pretend a personality as it will automatically be uncovered when you go in a conversation with that person and the turn of events ,I bet,no one would like.

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  • In this highly corporatised world, it is really important to make a first impression, and you have given great tips on how to accomplish that.

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  • Akanksha Babbar
    September 25, 2015 10:56 pm

    Nice post

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  • Vidushi Aparajita
    September 25, 2015 11:18 pm

    All the essential points are inculcated.Amazingly written article.

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  • Well done

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  • vishakha Tiwari
    September 28, 2015 9:59 pm

    nice

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  • Nice article

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  • nice one

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  • Tulasi Venkatesh
    September 28, 2015 10:28 pm

    Neatly done ..i do agree this are the basic ones and the more important ones that turn out to be the judging factors.

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  • Very nice article…it contains good stuff usefull for first interview…i like your described point about politness and focus on others..

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  • The topic itself is so interesting . so nicely written . keep it up

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  • Chandni Ahuja
    October 4, 2015 10:38 pm

    As they say “first impression is the last impression” nice article. It should help many people who have to prepare for an interview

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  • Great work!

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